let sleeping dogs lie
let sleeping dogs lie
Meaning:
- its best to leave a situation as it is if disturbing it might cause trouble
- do not instigate trouble by disturbing a situation
- to leave things as they are in order to avoid disagreement
- its best not to talk of bad situations if people have forgotten about them
Example:
- As Eliza was in good spirits that morning, Andy decided not to bring up the argument they had last night. It was best to let sleeping dogs lie.
- Since my manager did not ask me anything about me coming late that day, I did not speak to him about it – it is best to let sleeping dogs lie.
- Its not that the two parties have finally agreed over the issue, its just that they have let sleeping dogs lie and things continue as they are.
- We know that we would never reach an agreement over this matter, so its better to let sleeping dogs lie and not discuss it anymore.
- Further investigations into that matter would surely bring to light a lot of controversial decisions, so past governments have just let sleeping dogs lie.
- I wanted to tell her what I thought, but then I decided to let sleeping dogs lie.
Origin:
This phrase has been in use since the 1300s and has reference to waking up sleeping watchdogs, who could be fierce.
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A sleep dog or fox kachus no poultry
‒ Anonymous December 4, 2019
These examples are very contrived. Not one of them sounds natural. Usually this idiom, like so many, are used as comment by a second speaker on the first speaker’s situation. Or as a summary or justification of what you’ve just said. Notice:
“A: Should I talk to John about Claire being out with that other guy on Friday?
B: It’s entirely up to you, Tony, but if you ask me, it’s better to let sleeping dogs lie.”
In your example,
“I wanted to tell her what I thought, but then I decided to let sleeping dogs lie.”,
the idiom has been shoehorned in. Who would say that? What about this:
“I wanted to tell her what I thought, but then I decided not to. I mean, it’s better to let sleeping dogs lie, right?”
Is that not more natural?
‒ Davie November 11, 2017